vakar pārlasījos par attachmentiem

1) attachmenta tips izveidojas pirmajos 3 dzīves gados, primary care giver rezultātā (parasti māte, bet tikpat labi var būt aukle vai vecmamma)
2) 4 pamattipi - drošais, trauksmainais, izvairīgais vai trauksmaini izvairīgais (ir ari citas tipologijas, bet pamatdoma taada)
3) ir tendence pārnest šo tipu uz romantiski intīmām attiecībām
4) ir tendence izvēlēties partneri atbilstošu savam tipam
5) drošā tipa pārim ir lielāka iespēja būt apmierinātam attiecībās, kamēr visiem pārejiem  - lielāka iespēja ciest un gruzīties

mans teevs bija avoiding type, maate  - anxious, bet ar avoiding ieziimeem
logiski, ka vini satikaas un pievilkaas
logiski, ka man ir anxious-avoiding type (laikam dominee anxious)

kas ir veel interesantaak (un loti logiksi) paaudzu paaudzem manaa dzimtaa ir sie gadijumi  - anxious, avoidng dazadas porcijas

un par to ne viens vien zinatanieks raksta rakstinjus un  pelna maizi vaiga sviedros, peetot saadus gadijienus, sk :

Abstract: Examined the impact of secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment styles on romantic relationships in a longitudinal study involving 144 dating couples. For both men and women, the secure attachment style was associated with greater relationship interdependence, commitment, trust, and satisfaction than were the anxious or avoidant attachment styles. The anxious and avoidant styles were associated with less frequent positive emotions and more frequent negative emotions in the relationship, whereas the reverse was true of the secure style

When accuracy hurts: Reactions of anxious–ambivalent dating partners to a relationship-threatening situation.By Simpson, Jeffry A.; Ickes, William; Grich, Jami
Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol 76(5), May 1999, 754-769.
Abstract: Why are anxious–ambivalent individuals especially likely to have turbulent and unstable relationships? To help answer this question, the authors use 3 theoretical perspectives ,,,

Antonio man to netiesi skaidroja 2 gadus, kamer  vina itaalja nervi neiztureeja un vins saaka breekt.