piedod vecums laikam.. |
[Feb. 6th, 2015|03:49 pm] |
Jo vairāk lasu Cibu, jo vairāk esmu pārliecināts, ka viens no visssvārīgākiem faktoriem, kas ietekmē musu sapratni un uztveri ir tās, vai mums ir bērni vai mums nav [laikam neveikli izteicos]. Domāju, ka nav iespējams tiem, kuriem nav, saprast kā tas ir būt atbīldīgām ... netikai pār bērniem, bat āri (kaut ārī šad tad tas varētu šķist bezcerīgi) pār attiecību ar ... spouse - common or not, lai ģimene būtu siltā vietā kurā bērni var uzaugt - it is something you have to live through. Un Ir, tas IR dārbs.. and it's not for us to fly off here and there at the drop of a hat, or live the infantile adulthood of the brave new world. |
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From: | chaika |
Date: | February 6th, 2015 - 08:56 pm |
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arī
From: | chaika |
Date: | February 6th, 2015 - 10:32 pm |
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Ok :)
| From: | kakjux |
Date: | February 6th, 2015 - 04:52 pm |
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I agree, the differences in certain thinking patterns are totally different. In some regards because of this, I think I shouldn't be a mother ever. I can barely co-parent a cat.
Cats do NOT need parenting. You will be a great mother, laikam.
| From: | kakjux |
Date: | February 6th, 2015 - 05:03 pm |
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you say so, but we can't just f*ck off for a week and leave the cat alone in the house. and I do struggle with this at times. but thanks for saying that. :)
Es atkal lieku likmes uz sava ego nobeigsanu. Cina ar sevi par pacietibas un pazemibas macisanos, caur kuru vienigo vecaks vispar var pietuvoties savam mazulim. Ja tas neizdodas, tad jamuk prom no ta maza.
| From: | ulvs |
Date: | February 7th, 2015 - 06:43 pm |
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lol, bet tu domā, ka tie, kuriem nav bērnu to nesaprot?! tas taču ir tik pašsaprotami, un tāpēc neviens netaisa bērnus agri (cenšas to nedarīt; nu, ja vien nav daudz naudas, noplūdes vai pārplīsuša preža)
ek ignore mani, luudzu: biju nīgrs. Although, I would still say that you can't know it until you live it: you can just have an idea, albeit reasonably accurate perhaps. I guess I was just reacting to a few random posts which seemed to symbolise a petty and prissy little zeitgeist, led by those who generously apply the adjective intelligent and rational to their personas, but who should be changing nappies instead of idolising their free lifestyle.... aagh, seems I can't stop:)
| From: | ulvs |
Date: | February 9th, 2015 - 01:44 pm |
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no worries mate, i totally understand your "concerns" and the way of dealing with them. a post in klab.lv is quite an adequate way of dealing with things and ideas that surround you (the virtual ones). es šeit tomēr arī mēdzu nereti izgāzt žulti (nesaku, ka tu to darīji tādā formā; jo es to daru daudz rupjāk, savukārt tu - daudz civilizētāk). | |