06 November 2026 @ 11:07 am
 
Rasela Branda gadiijums, manupraat, ir kaut kaadas shausmas. Lai arii vinjsh bija/potentially ir pretiigs tipinjsh, kas man vienmeer ir shkjitis like a tricksy and false snake that just uses words in a really unfair, lie-y way, tas ka vinju tagad ieliek cietumaa par kaut ko, ko taam alleged victims vairaak par dekaadi bija pietiekami vienalga, shkjiet absurd. Jo lai arii vinjsh bija loxs, vinjam tagad ir 3 beerni un gjimene un at least superficially baushlji, so two wrongs don't make a right. Am I completely false here? Es parasti iestaatos par visaadu hrenju upuriem. But this just seems like a complete - exageration. Jebkura sieviete, that is actually being raped or asaulted paarveerstos niknaa vilkaa un par sevi iestaatos, te tachu nav nekaada Afganistaana, plus ietu uzreiz uz policiju vai radiniekiem. As opposed to wait almost 2 decades and then decide that in retrospect they did not fancy to have sex and be touched. Anyways, I guess ja vinjsh tieshaam ir atradis Dievu, then he probably should welcome this reckoning for all his abundant sins, so all is well. Shis man vienkaarshi lika aizdomaaties par visaam taam sieveiteem, kas piekriit seksam un intimitaatei, just out of some random circumstance, kaut vai majority of adolescents, or tradwifes vai religious beibes, and it just feels like at least back in the day, a good portion of husbands would end up in prison if looked at it though nowaday lens.
 
 
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[info]methodrone on November 9th, 2026 - 12:28 pm
The question is - vai katrs muzhiks kursh ir obnoxious and lacks brain power to see when a female is not into it, deserve to be imprisoned. Jo taadu ir daudz.. Man teiksim shkjiet ljoti straightforward tie gadiijumi, kur clearly ir bijis kaut kaads abuse - like Epstein files, yet neviens nav apcietinaats. Bet shiis Branda sievietes, ir bijushas adults with equal agency to men, so why would that somehow be overlookwd when they have ended up either flirting with him or actually ended up in bedrooms with him knowing that he is a sex addict and promiscuous AF and not into civilized interactions? Kaapeec liidz ko when it comes to sex, women are almost like underage or less mental faculty type of beings than men, who cannot blatantly say stop and leave?

Anyway, Branda gadiijumaa, it is unclear, un shkjiet ka some of them tried to stop him and leave, just not wholeheartedly, plus es veelaizvien nespeeju saprast, kaapeec if there was an actual assault, why would you not report it asap if it is important for you for that male to receive a punishment.
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porcelāna lellīte[info]neraate on November 9th, 2026 - 10:28 pm
Nu tu jau te nodarbojies ar victim blaming. Ir atsķirīgi skatījumi par to, līdz kuram brīdim drīkst pārdomāt un kas tev par to būs. Diemžēl mēs dzīvojam pasaulē, kur jaukie zēni kļūst nejauki tiklīdz saprot, ka nebūs un lietas var eskalēt strauji. Pasaulē, kurā nopirkts dzēriens automātiski nozīmē kniebienu. Kurā nē-paldies ir jāpapildina ar 'man ir čalis' lai atstātos, bet dažiem ar to nepietiek, tas ir sekunžu jautājums līdz sagrābj pie rokas, piemēram, vai reāli lien laizīt kaklu sabiedriskā vietā. Diemžēl parasta sieviete ir fiziski vājāka par par sevi mazāku vīrieti.

Uz to vai vajadzētu sēdināt - zini, ja visi pelnīti sēdētu, pasaule būtu daudz drošāka vieta. Viens normāls monogāns vīrietis var būt labs pret cik sievietēm? Un pret cik var drausmīgi izturēties monstrs?
Šādas diskusijas ir viens no iemesliem kādēļ cilvēkiem var būt grūti saprast kur ir tā robeža kas pārkāpta un kā sauc to, ko ir piedzīvojuši. Vai Merlina Mensona bijušajai beibei nav taisnība par izvarošanu tapēc vien, ka viņi bija attiecībās, viņa bija vielu vai alko ietekmē, piekrita video maigoties, bet nebija ar mieru reāli kniebties
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[info]methodrone on November 9th, 2026 - 10:48 pm
Jaa, like i don't have an issue with consents, its not vague or gray, no is no. Bet like from testimonies neizjlausiijaas ka taas sievietes bija konsekventas, ut kund of sounded like they were undecided and just kept going along with whatever was happening which i don't comprehend.

Es tomeer laikam domaaju ka fair enough, lai arii es neizprotu sievietes kas tikai daljeeji pretojas un saka nee bet tad are not enforcing it no matter how much stronger and convincing a man is, es domaaju peec visiem aprakstiem Brands bija a typical gross maniac - does ge deserve jail? Perhaps.. i really don't know.

Also i don't want to victim blame, bet mani personiigi triggero sievietes that don't pick up on red flags and go along with promiscuous scenarios. So in a sense it is just morals blaming, as in what do you expect dancing with devil. Of course devil is still devil.
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porcelāna lellīte[info]neraate on November 10th, 2026 - 12:15 am
Redzi te atkal diskusija ir par to, kas jādara sievietei. Jāpretojas nevis daļēji, bet pa īstam, nevis kādam jāsaprot 'viņai šitas nepatīk' un jāizbeidz. UK salīdzinoši nesen bija gadījums, kad sagrāba-izvaroja-nožņaudza-izmeta upē pagāja septiņas minūtes. Septiņas!

Es domāju ka pēdējā rindkopa arī ir atbilde tajā, kas tev šajā gadījumā besī. Epšteina failos ir tik bezgalīgi daudz cietušo, ka nevienam nav laika nodarboties ar filozofēšanu par to kas kur kā ar ko, kā ģērbās un kā teica nē.
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[info]methodrone on November 10th, 2026 - 09:40 am
Nu jaa, jo consent should apply to actions as well - if you don't consent then don't do it.
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