29 May 2025 @ 10:40 am
 
"Orangutans nurse their babies for an exceptionally long time, typically 6 to 8 years, with some individuals nursing for even longer, up to 9 years. This extended nursing period is the longest among all non-human mammals.

Orangutan mothers nurse their young for significantly longer than other primates, including chimpanzees (around 5 years) and gorillas (around 4 years).

Orangutans don't have a strict weaning schedule. They may nurse less frequently as they begin to eat solid foods, but then resume nursing more frequently if other food sources become scarce.

Due to the long nursing period, female orangutans only give birth every 7 to 9 years, which is also the longest birth interval for any land mammal."

Interesting! I think its so fucked up, ka pasaule neiedroshina mammas ziidiit beernus, un ilgi, as part of default mothering requirement, un way past 2-3 years.

Es to protams, nekad neteiktu sejaa savaam mom friends, bet tad, kad man kaada mamma staasta, ka "well, i just really wanted my boobs back" vai "it was too stressful" vai "i just don't have the time".. Girl, that's not good enough and you know it! So you had a child and you already can't be bothered? No vienas puses es sparotu, ka shiis mammas nezina neko par what bfeeding is, what human milk is, and what nursing from a mom does to a child, as opposed to drinking chemical mix from a plastic bottle and sucking on a piece of rubber for comfort. To es pati arii reaali iemaaciijos tikai lasot un klausoties lietas, maybe 1 year in? Bet why wouldn't you bother looking up info and prioritizing your child over convenience? I thought that's what motherhood is about.
 
 
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[info]methodrone on June 2nd, 2025 - 02:58 pm
Hiney, everyone judges everyone, some in secret some in open.

Es nevienu, savukaart, nenosodu, bet gan domaaju, ka tas ir unreasonable and silly, and probably a bit detrimental to the kid, gribeet beernus bet negribeet vinjus ziidiit, kas ir biologjiskaa norma. I don't care enough about any specific women's lifes lai aktiivi nosodiitu.
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cimone[info]cimone on June 2nd, 2025 - 06:26 pm
nu tā ir tava interpretācija, ka lēmuma pamatā ir kaut kāds viendimensionāls "negribēt". protams, ka tādu vispārēju spriedumu pamatā nav iedziļināšanās konkrētos keisos, bet tieši tas padara tādus spriedumus diezgan bezjēdzīgus vai pat kaitējošus.
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cimone[info]cimone on June 2nd, 2025 - 06:31 pm
bet viss chill, es ne jau par to, ka tu nevari tādus spriedumus piedāvāt internetā.
protams, ka visi visus džadžo, bet tas jau neliedz uz to paskatīties un redzēt, un varbūt reizēm tas palīdz nebīdīt kaut kādus naratīvus.
es neuzskatu, ka ir tikai melns un balts: zīdīšana līdz četru gadu vecumam vienīgais labais risinājums un zīdīšanas agrīna pārtraukšana kā totāls feils un sava bērna nodošana. sviests.
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[info]methodrone on June 2nd, 2025 - 06:39 pm
Pirmkaart, es protams, ka savaa 'judgement' neietveru situaacijas kur maates dazhaadu iemeslu peec nav speejiigas ziidiit vai riskee ar depresijaam utt.

Es pati nezinu vai vispaar buutu speejiiga ziidiit beernu liidz taadam vecumam as it is fucking hard. Bet es turpinu shokeeties cik viegli mammas atsakaas no shii beernaudzinaashanas aspekta pavisam vai paaragri, un izteelojos kaadi buutu cilveeki, ja vinji to buutu beerniibaa sanjeemushi.
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cimone[info]cimone on June 2nd, 2025 - 06:52 pm
jā, protams, būtu foršāk, ja lielākā daļa sabiedrības būtu saņēmusi labu, mīlošu un nesavtīgu aprūpi mazulības vecumā, kā rezultātā mums būtu sabiedrība, kur lielākajai daļai indivīdu ir droša piesaiste.

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cimone[info]cimone on June 2nd, 2025 - 06:54 pm
un nebūtu tādas lietas kā sleep training, atstāšana bērnudārzos pirms trīs gadu vecuma utt. esmu tikai par.
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