- 2014.07.15, 11:15
- If you are in a position where people emphasize your flaws and overlook your achievements, you have low social status [...]. If the opposite is true, you have high social status.
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- 15.7.14 14:19 #
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mja.
...if you have low social status, people will eventually find reasons to dislike you unless you continually sacrifice yourself in order to be liked, and even that strategy runs out of time. At high social status, they’ll find reasons to like you. At low status, your flaws are given prime focus and your assets, while acknowledged, dismissed as unimportant or countered with “yes, buts” which turn any positive trait into a negative (...“Yes, he’s a good programmer, but he doesn’t seem like a team player.”) When you have low status, your best strategy is to be invisible and unremarkable, because even good distinctions will hurt you. - Atbildēt
- 15.7.14 15:07 #
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Sārtvaidzīgi. Īsāk sakot, you don't have a chance!
- Atbildēt