- Why Work Is so Much Easier than Love
- 27.11.15 14:23
- Everyone hates reviews at work, but what deeply kind phenomena they actually are compared with what goes on at home. Reviews are steeped in a culture of tact. One rather tough remark has to be wrapped in at least seven compliments. Work culture knows that people don’t improve and can’t take new ideas on board if they are feeling threatened and humiliated.
Home life finds us able to be far less competent teachers. We’re so panicked and frightened by the thought that the other person can’t do what we want them to (even if we haven’t actually ever explained it), we take to trying to teach them by slamming doors and calling them idiots or worse. Sadly, no one has ever learnt very much under conditions of hysteria.
http://www.thebookoflife.org/why-work-is-so-much-easier-than-love/?utm_source=T he+Book+of+Life&utm_campaign=01640af244-The_Book_of_Life _Newsletter_20_November_11_20_2015&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_f09ad459ab-01640af244-1500757 89 - 3 rakstair doma
- 27.11.15 15:49
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kādas pilnīgas muļķības. jebkurā atbildīgā darbā ar lielu spriedzes situāciju procentu "komplimentus" par sevi simts gadus nedzirdēsi. turklāt, people improve and change only under pressure or threat.
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- 27.11.15 15:53
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nu es kā cilvēks, kurš strādā stirpi atbildīgu darbu nevarēšu tev piekrist, bet pieļauju, ka tas atkarīgs no konkrētās sabiedrības un iesaistītajiem indivīdiem
interesanti kādas profesijas tu vērtē kā atbildīgas ar lielu spriedzes situāciju procentu?
(es varu spriest par arhitektiem, ārstiem) - Atbildēt
- 27.11.15 16:08
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Un tu tā domā, jo?
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