- 30.12.11 12:02
- Pēdējās dienās lasu Alises Milleres "The Drama of the Gifted Child".
Daži citāti:These people have all developed the art of not experiencing feelings, for a child can experience her feelings only when there is somebody there who accepts her fully, understands her, and supports her.
This person is not really himself, nor does he know or love himself: he does everything to make a narcissistically cathected object love him in the way he once, as a child, so urgently needed it.
Both the depressive and the grandiose person completely deny their childhood reality by living as though the availability of the parents could still be salvaged: the grandiose person through the illusion of achievement, and the depressive through his constant fear of losing "love." Neither can accept the truth that this loss or absence of love has already happened in the past, and that no effort whatsoever can change this fact.
Šo to izskaidro, gan par mani, gan citiem. - 2 rakstair doma
- 30.12.11 12:54
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Daudziem citiem, jāpiezīmē.
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- 30.12.11 13:02
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no mana paziņu loka pilnīgi noteikti. Varētu jau diskutēt, ka tāds tādu izvēlas, bet grūti oponēt, ja tik labi nezini to masu, kas ārpus paziņu loka.
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