pāris interesanti koncepti no mācībām # interesantā daļa par to, kā uztveram sevi un citus = self-serving attributions by judging the causes of our own behaviors in overly positive ways [testu noliku, jo gudrs.. nofeiloju, jo skolotājs slikts] + The common tendency to overestimate the role of dispositional factors and overlook the impact of situations in judging others is known as the fundamental attribution error (or correspondence bias). [kolēģim ir nevis slikts rīts, bet viņš ir nejauks pēc dabas; draudzene nevis netīšām nokavēja, bet ir aizmārša etc] + Cognitive dissonance refers to the discomfort we experience when we choose to behave in ways that we see as inappropriate. ] If we feel that we have wasted our time or acted against our own moral principles, we experience negative emotions (dissonance) and may change our attitudes about the behavior to reduce the negative feelings. [When we put in effort for something—an initiation, a big purchase price, or even some of our precious time—we will likely end up liking the activity more than we would have if the effort had been less; not doing so would lead us to experience the unpleasant feelings of dissonance. After we buy a product, we convince ourselves that we made the right choice because the product is excellent.. muldēšana sev par to, cik kaut kas ir labs tikai tāpēc, ka esam tajā daudz ieguldījuši.]
# garlaicīgā daļa par attiecībām: study of interpersonal attraction, or what makes people like, and even love, each other: a perceived similarity in values and beliefs between the partners + self-disclosure, the tendency to communicate frequently, without fear of reprisal, and in an accepting and empathetic manner + proximity, or the extent to which people are physically near us ( the principle of mere exposure, which is the tendency to prefer stimuli (including but not limited to people) that we have seen more frequently) + Commitment [ the feelings and actions that keep partners working together to maintain the relationship [15] and is characterized by mutual expectations that the self and the partner will be responsive to each other’s needs] + a sense of responsiveness. People are happy, healthy, and likely to stay in relationships in which they are sure that they can trust the other person to understand, validate, and care for them. | 
