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Decembris 23., 2012
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I have a surprising piece of advice for parents, which I hope will be taken in the spirit it is offered: your kid doesn't want to be around you that much. No one does. This isn't because you're a bad person but because you're an ordinary person. You are not such a unique, creative, intelligent or even interesting person that the kid benefits from constant exposure to you. When you have something to offer, maximize and concentrate that time, and then get the hell out of the way.
- The Last Psychiatrist
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oj, tas vecis ir tik kruts! es šamo ar baudu biju lasījusi, kad meklēju aizlaikos insaideru viedokļus par psih-pharma lietām. bet nu šim viss, ko šis uzraksta, ir kruts. šitas arī.
man tur pašās, pašās beigās gan uzrunāja cits teikums. man liekas, ka man tas varētu noderēt un būt aktuāli, kad nu būs aktuāli --
Parents often don't know what to do with their kids, so they overwhelm them with their attention instead. What no parent realizes is that the vast majority of that overinvolved time is spent irritated. Add it up yourself. Nagging, bored, looking at your mobile. |
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