Visa shii simpatizeeshana ar cilveekiem, kam ir gender disphoria, ir aptuveni tas pats kaa bad parenting - I will let my child watch that iPad all day so that they wouldn't cry and have a tantrum. It is easier, more convenient, and you don't feel liek a baddie for making someone cry. All you have to do is justify it in your mind - that it makes your life easier, and it can't be that bad in the long run if they really enjoy it. But deep down you know - you are possibly fucking them up, by not facing the truth and parenting properly.