Pilnmēness nogurdinātie - Komentāri

Muļķības, ko cilvēki saka viens otram kā padomu:

Muļķība nr3. "You Just Need to Believe in Yourself!"
Also often phrased as "You just need to have confidence!"
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So Instead, Maybe Try Saying: "Remember that, ultimately, nobody gives a fuck."

This sounds completely unrelated to what I was just talking about, but bear with me here.

The idea is that you build confidence with successes, and you get those by starting small and failing a few times, figuring things out as you go. But I find what makes people afraid to do that is fear of looking foolish to the world when they fail. That is based on the mistaken idea that the entire world is watching you and waiting to laugh at your mistakes.

The comforting reality is that nobody gives a fuck. For me, this has always been a very liberating thought, and I have found it to be true virtually every time it's tested.

// no Cracked