"When you’re in a relationship, there’s this illusion of being “busy” even when you’re objectively not. Lying around in bed with someone somehow feels productive — you’re “working on your relationship” or “bonding” or whatever. Ya know, quality time. But when you’re lying in bed, spooning Seamless Chinese food into your mouth without a warm body by your side — that’s tragic." https://theblog.okcupid.com/https-theblog-okcupid-com-slutever-karley-sciortino-on-the-benefits-of-not-being-a-we-2ebc073567e3#.oywo1363x