drawing a line somewhere
Badmouthing and screwing exes over is not a nice thing but it's marginally understandable. Assuming there is a line. Sometimes there obv isn't. St Augustine, if things did actually happen the way I suspect they did...should be made a saint of OTT and serving as a warning. Because in our age if something like that happens it won't be paper and ink memetic silliness, it will be a strategic thermonuclear missile to get someone's ex-gf in e.g. Paris.
lazy