'to defent' and 'to keep' - those are agressive terms more appropriate for the war, not for the relations. or does that mean you are in a constant warfare with the rest of the world? quite possible, as far as my mind can grasp that. and the most funny thing about that is that nobody actually cares about your declared war-against-all. few even notice. is that waste of energy really worth the results it can bring?

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It doesn't take any energy. My way of protecting myself is just not opening up to every single person, who comes on my way. The thing is that I trust almost noone, so if I don't, nobody can be sure that he or she can trust in me. I always have some kind of a back door out of all relationships.
But, of course, I also do have people, that are very important to me and that can actually hurt me.

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afraid to be hurt? ok, i dig it. it`s your way and good luck going!

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\m/

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