now i know - i should become a salesperson! :

"“the new ABCs of moving others” — attunement (“the ability to bring one’s actions and outlook into harmony with other people and with the context you’re [sic] in”), buoyancy (a trifecta of “interrogative self-talk” that moves from making statements to asking questions, contagious “positivity,” and an optimistic “explanatory style” of explaining negative events to yourself), and clarity (“the capacity to help others see their situations in fresh and more revealing ways(..)”"

diemžēl man būtu kauns mēģināt cilvēkus iegādāties lietas, kas viņiem nafig nav vajadzīgas, tā ka arī šis variants atkrīt :D