What people don't understand is that motherhood is an ongoing operation, which you simply cannot take a coffee break from, forever!

It's like telling Muad'Dib to take a break from Harkonens and Fremen drama to go have a chill late and watch a movie or pamper himself or something.

Just as any operative you have a suitable uniform which is milk or food stained chavy clothes, and there is no 'me time', that is unprofessional and delusional, and possibly harmful.

And you are forever drained and depleted and barely alive, as you have drank the worm poison and there is no going back, love.