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23. Apr 2012|18:48 |
grāmata "highly sensitive child"
http://www.amazon.com/The-Highly-Sensitive-Child-Overwhelms/dp/0767908724
grāmatā var ieskatīties, tās sākumā ir tests, pēc kura mazmurkšķis ir HSC ar 19 punktiem no 23 (pietiek ar 13, lai būtu).
no grāmatas redzams tikai mazumiņš, bet highly piekrītu autorei, ka pamatā no vecākiem atkarīgs, vai bērna jūtīgums tālākajā dzīvē būs priekšrocība vai trūkums.
grāmatas kkāds kopsavilkums
http://www.mandalachildrenshouse.com/DYK/Did_You_Know-Highly_Sensitive_Child_1-08.pdf
grāmatas autores sacerējusi vēl žūksni grāmatu par jūtīgu cilvēku dzīves aspektiem un te viņas lapa
http://www.hsperson.com/
un uzruna pieaugušajiem grāmatu pircējiem:
Are you highly sensitive? You can find out by taking the self-test. This test, the result of empirical research on the trait, gives you a good sense of what high sensitivity is, as well. To see if your child is highly sensitive there is another checklist.
If you find you are highly sensitive, or your child is, you need to begin by knowing the following:
* Your trait is normal. It is found in 15 to 20% of the population--too many to be a disorder, but not enough to be well understood by the majority of those around you. (izcēlums mmans)
* It is innate. In fact, biologists have found it to be in most or all animals, from fruit flies and fish to dogs, cats, horses, and primates. This trait reflects a certain type of survival strategy, being observant before acting. The brains of highly sensitive persons (HSPs) actually work a little differently than others'.
* You are more aware than others of subtleties. This is mainly because your brain processes information and reflects on it more deeply. So even if you wear glasses, for example, you see more than others by noticing more.
* You are also more easily overwhelmed. If you notice everything, you are naturally going to be overstimulated when things are too intense, complex, chaotic, or novel for a long time.
* This trait is not a new discovery, but it has been misunderstood. Because HSPs prefer to look before entering new situations, they are often called "shy." But shyness is learned, not innate. In fact, 30% of HSPs are extraverts, although the trait is often mislabeled as introversion. It has also been called inhibitedness, fearfulness, or neuroticism. Some HSPs behave in these ways, but it is not innate to do so and not the basic trait.
* Sensitivity is valued differently in different cultures. In cultures where it is not valued, HSPs tend to have low self-esteem. They are told "don't be so sensitive" so that they feel abnormal. |
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