Yes, I'm talking about you S., my friend and me too.
Lately I'e been thinking much about relationships with someone,
Relationships in general...
Observing people I know and hearing stories and knowing people you know,
I've come to conclusion.
You and me, if we have good relationships with someone, doesn't matter who.,
we get so attached to them, we feel when that person thinks we're important to him or her.
We FEEL, what this person FEELS, happy or sad, peaceful or angry, every feeling possible.
And my resume is that this empathy, in the level you and I have.
It's so horrible. It's so horrible when it comes to the point when relationships come to the end,
or we are just to tired to be there, or we just want to go our separate ways.
it's sooo devastating and emotionally hard to deal all your staff inside your heart, mind and body...
and all of that emotionally being attached and feeling everything, that other person feels.
And when it comes to the point, where yo have to decide, have to chose between you and person you feel connected to,
even if you don't want to feel what he or she is feeling, it's getting complicated.
Because of these reasons:
1) You don't want to be heartless asshole, you don't want to be judged by other people because you love yourself and chose yourself
2) if you do chose yourself, anyway you get hurt, because you feel all the pain from other person, at least time heals
3) We were grown in complicated society, where choosing yourself and loving yourself is not a crime, but in the same time you have to CARE about everything, and like I said, people like us with such a huge empathy, this is enormously hard and painful.
4) the funny thing is, from what I have observed in years is that, it's such a rare thing to meet someone with big and kind heart like ours :)
Only few people I know are so, kind, loving and sweet like you S. and me of course. And I like that about us, empathy shouldn't ruin our lives, we both need to learn to use it properly, trying not get hurt.
So OVERALL,
We should FUCK society, try to FOCUS on our own feeling and problems, put ourselves FIRST, and go FORWARD, and never look back.
Empathy is rare, and we have to learn to use it and enjoy the positive vibe from it!
Fuck,
Focus,
First,
Forward.
Lately I'e been thinking much about relationships with someone,
Relationships in general...
Observing people I know and hearing stories and knowing people you know,
I've come to conclusion.
You and me, if we have good relationships with someone, doesn't matter who.,
we get so attached to them, we feel when that person thinks we're important to him or her.
We FEEL, what this person FEELS, happy or sad, peaceful or angry, every feeling possible.
And my resume is that this empathy, in the level you and I have.
It's so horrible. It's so horrible when it comes to the point when relationships come to the end,
or we are just to tired to be there, or we just want to go our separate ways.
it's sooo devastating and emotionally hard to deal all your staff inside your heart, mind and body...
and all of that emotionally being attached and feeling everything, that other person feels.
And when it comes to the point, where yo have to decide, have to chose between you and person you feel connected to,
even if you don't want to feel what he or she is feeling, it's getting complicated.
Because of these reasons:
1) You don't want to be heartless asshole, you don't want to be judged by other people because you love yourself and chose yourself
2) if you do chose yourself, anyway you get hurt, because you feel all the pain from other person, at least time heals
3) We were grown in complicated society, where choosing yourself and loving yourself is not a crime, but in the same time you have to CARE about everything, and like I said, people like us with such a huge empathy, this is enormously hard and painful.
4) the funny thing is, from what I have observed in years is that, it's such a rare thing to meet someone with big and kind heart like ours :)
Only few people I know are so, kind, loving and sweet like you S. and me of course. And I like that about us, empathy shouldn't ruin our lives, we both need to learn to use it properly, trying not get hurt.
So OVERALL,
We should FUCK society, try to FOCUS on our own feeling and problems, put ourselves FIRST, and go FORWARD, and never look back.
Empathy is rare, and we have to learn to use it and enjoy the positive vibe from it!
Fuck,
Focus,
First,
Forward.
Klausos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d8ekz_CSBVg
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