''If he doesn't email, call or text back, he isn't saying hell yes. If he doesn't make an actual date, or offers false promises and empty compliments, he isn't saying hell yes. Flirting, dating, texting and sexting can be fun, but if you're spending time evaluating and trying to figure out what it all means, it likely means something to only one of you. And that one is you. (...)In big ways and small, in new relationships or marriages 20 years deep, we all say hell yes or hell no hundreds of times a day, in hundreds of ways. We all deserve to be with someone who says hell yes''.