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If a guy ever uses the words: appropriate or inappropriate, around you. Just know, he's not your friend, and he's not to be trusted. |
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[Dec. 22nd, 2020|11:20 am] |
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Hey, Mariana! |
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| so fuckin true |
[Dec. 22nd, 2020|08:49 pm] |
Healthy Fours are willing to reveal highly personal and potentially shameful things about themselves because they are determined to understand the truth of their experience—so that they can discover who they are and come to terms with their emotional history. This ability also enables Fours to endure suffering with a quiet strength. Their familiarity with their own darker nature makes it easier for them to process painful experiences that might overwhelm other types.
While it is true that Fours often feel different from others, they do not really want to be alone. They may feel socially awkward or self-conscious, but they deeply wish to connect with people who understand them and their feelings. The “romantics” of the Enneagram, they long for someone to come into their lives and appreciate the secret self that they have privately nurtured and hidden from the world. If, over time, such validation remains out of reach, Fours begin to build their identity around how unlike everyone else they are. The outsider therefore comforts herself by becoming an insistent individualist: everything must be done on her own, in her own way, on her own terms. Fours’ mantra becomes “I am myself. Nobody understands me. I am different and special,” while they secretly wish they could enjoy the easiness and confidence that others seem to enjoy. |
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[Dec. 22nd, 2020|09:13 pm] |
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Kāda tad īsti ir atšķirība starp eneagrammu 4 un narcistisko disorderu (un vai vispār ir)? Ir lietas, kas eneagrammai 4 patiešām izskatās pēc tā paša, kas rakstīts par narcismu, bet ir arī atšķirīgais - emocionālais godīgums un dziļa vēlme patiesi sakonektēt ar cilvēkiem dziļā, garīgā līmenī. Piemērs narcisam ir Vladimirs Putins; piemērs eneagrammai 4 ir Džonijs Deps vai Morisejs. Vladimirs ir parādījis visai pasaulei, kāds viņš ir mačo karavadonis, atlēts, džudoists, tēvišķs vadonis, uz kuru var paļauties, stabilitātes garants. Bet vai viņš ir sakonektējis ar kādu dziļi cilvēciskā līmenī un vai vispār to vēlas? Nē - vai vispār uz to ir spējīgs? Es domāju, ka nē. |
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[Dec. 22nd, 2020|10:23 pm] |
Mani jautājumi Sandrai:
1)Tu maini vīriešus kā zeķes?
2)Kurš ir tavs mīļākais bērna tēvs?
3)Kāda ir sajūta būt sievietei? |
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[Dec. 22nd, 2020|11:24 pm] |
- Nu viņš ir kā no citas pasaules, ar brīvu domāšanu, radošs, bet viņam neveicas ar meitenēm, jo viņām viņš sākumā baigi iepatīkas, bet ar laiku rodas kardināli pretējs viedoklis un sajūtas. Viņš bija agrāk kopā ar manu draudzeni YYY. Viņam ir maza meitiņa no citas sievietes. Viņam patīk filozofēt par kosmosu, citplanētiešiem, dvēselēm. Daudzi domā, ka viņā mājo kaut kas ļoti tumšs.
Nu baigi aprobežotais rakstiņš, bet grūti sakopot uzreiz domas, lai uzrakstītu sakarīgāk. Tu dusmīgs?
- Nē, ir ok. Man patika, ka tu rakstīji, ka daudzi domā, ka manī mājo kaut kas ļoti tumšs. Tas man dod noslēpumainuma un mistērijas auru.
- Jā, un daudzām var arī likties, ka viņas tas neskars, jo viņas ir daudz īpašākas. |
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