- 9.3.15 18:29
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I think you need to be a bit dickish when you break up with someone. Otherwise it's hard for them to move on.
I think actually trying to be nice about it is in a way kind of selfish because you are hurting them emotionally and then trying to not be viewed in a bad light, therefore not accepting any blame. (which means the person who is getting broken up with will usually blame themselves)
Being fairly cruel about it will cause them to blame you for the failure of the relationship. Which frankly I prefer because I've always felt bad about breaking up with people and any reasoning they come up with that will give them peace of mind im ok with.
yes,yes, šito man jau sen vajadzēja saprast un ievērot. bet neko, augam. lai gan, protams, ceru, ka nebūs nepieciešams izmantot šo padomu.