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"But first you have to take full responsibility for your depression and not fault him for being unable or even unwilling to deal with it. He has a right to take care of himself by creating the healthiest environment for himself that is possible. Now, if you were married, that would be different, because he would have made a lifelong commitment in sickness and in health. But a toxic person is not someone most people are eager to spend their lives with, so try to to work on yourself and become happy on your own, then share that happiness with a partner, instead of expecting it to be supplied by a partner."
"But first you have to take full responsibility for your depression and not fault him for being unable or even unwilling to deal with it. He has a right to take care of himself by creating the healthiest environment for himself that is possible. Now, if you were married, that would be different, because he would have made a lifelong commitment in sickness and in health. But a toxic person is not someone most people are eager to spend their lives with, so try to to work on yourself and become happy on your own, then share that happiness with a partner, instead of expecting it to be supplied by a partner."